Help! For Teachers of Young Children : 88 Tips to Develop Children's Social Skills and Create Positive Teacher-Family Relationships.

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Main Author: Kaltman, Gwendolyn (Gwen) S. (Snyder)
Format: eBook
Language:English
Published: Thousand Oaks : SAGE Publications, 2005.
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Table of Contents:
  • Cover
  • Contents
  • Preface
  • Acknowledgments
  • About the Author
  • Part I
  • Developing Children's Social Skills
  • Chapter 1
  • "Yada, Yada, Yada": Communicating Effectively with the Young Child
  • 1. Use Nonverbal Communication
  • 2. Talk Frequently to Infants and Toddlers
  • 3. Get down to the Child's Eye Level
  • 4. Use Positive Language
  • 5. Be More Responsive to What a Child Does Than to What He Says
  • 6. Offer Limited Choices
  • 7. Be a Language Role Model
  • 8. Use Language to Influence a Child's Response to Negative Events
  • 9. Use Specific Language
  • 10. Avoid Using Sarcasm
  • 11. Engage Children in Conversation
  • 12. Use Props to Stimulate Conversation
  • 13. Ask Developmentally Appropriate Questions
  • 14. Help Children Tell the Truth
  • 15. Be Honest and Trustworthy
  • 16. Understand What the Child is Asking before Answering the Question
  • Try This
  • Chapter 2
  • "Why can't You Behave?" Understanding the Difference between Discipline and Punishment
  • 17. Control Your Emotions
  • 18. Have a Consistent Approach
  • 19. Give Children Positive Attention
  • 20. Use Tangible Rewards Sparingly
  • 21. Avoid Power Struggles
  • 22. Quiet a Group of Screaming Children by Joining Them
  • 23. Redirect Negative Play
  • 24. Help Children Learn to Take Turns
  • 25. Don't over-React When Children Test Your Limits
  • 26. Have Developmentally Appropriate Expectations
  • 27. Limit the Number of Class Rules
  • 28. Help Children Deal with Insults from other Children
  • 29. Stop Physical Bullying
  • 30. Don't Assume the Younger or Smaller Child is an Innocent Victim
  • 31. Recognize Tricks Children Use to Gain Favor
  • 32. Be Sure You Have a Child's Undivided Attention
  • 33. Help Children Learn to Express Anger and Frustration without Resorting to Physical Violence
  • 34. Guide Children through the Problem-Solving Process
  • Try This.
  • Chapter 3
  • "Will You be My Friend?" Helping Children Develop a Positive Self-Image and Master the Art of Getting along with Others
  • 35. Foster a Positive Self-Image
  • 36. Caution Parents about the Dangers of Being too Indulgent
  • 37. Find Something Positive to Say about Each Child
  • 38. Provide Activities That Involve Cooperation
  • 39. Encourage the Children to Interact Positively with all their Classmates
  • 40. Arrange Opportunities for Children to Help One Another
  • 41. When Developmentally Appropriate, Provide an Atmosphere That Encourages Sharing
  • 42. Be a Positive Role Model
  • 43. Give Children the Opportunity to Resolve Disagreements by Themselves
  • 44. Provide Materials That Encourage Positive Social Interaction on the Playground
  • 45. Stimulate but Do Not Dominate Dramatic Play
  • 46. Give Children the Privacy and Freedom They Need for Dramatic Play
  • Try This
  • Part II
  • Creating Positive Teacher-Family Relationships
  • Chapter 4
  • "Mommy, Please Don't Leave Me!" Preparing Parents and Children for School
  • 47. Offer Parents Specific and Concrete Advice on How to Minimize Separation Problems before the Child Enters School
  • 48. Try to Meet and form Bonds with Parents before School Starts
  • 49. Establish Good Lines of Communication with Parents
  • 50. Help Parents Develop an Exit Strategy
  • 51. Encourage Parents to Stay Nearby
  • 52. Gradually Increase the Time a Child Stays at School
  • 53. Give all the Children Extra Attention
  • 54. Accept a Child's Honest Feelings
  • 55. Develop Plans to Comfort Unhappy Children
  • 56. Set up the Easel to Create a Safe Observation Post
  • 57. Help Children Understand the Daily Schedule
  • 58. Use Your Name and the Children's Names Often
  • 59. Wear Pins or other Accessories That Appeal to Children
  • 60. Dress Appropriately for Working with Young Children.
  • 61. Count Heads Frequently During the Day
  • Try This
  • Chapter 5
  • The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly: Creating a Team Relationship with Parents
  • 62. Help Parents Work through the Natural Tendency to Be Jealous
  • 63. Put Your Personal Feelings Aside
  • 64. Make it Easy for Parents to Confide in You
  • 65. Learn about the Culture and Customs of the Children's Families
  • 66. Keep Parents Informed by Posting Lesson Plans
  • 67. Write Meaningful Newsletters
  • 68. Educate the Parents as well as the Children
  • 69. Find Ways to Communicate with Parents
  • 70. Do Your Best to Calm an Angry Parent
  • 71. Involve Parents in the School Experience
  • 72. Be Willing to Go the Extra Mile for Parents
  • 73. Show Your Appreciation to Parents
  • 74. Recognize That You May Not be Able to Help Every Parent
  • Try This
  • Chapter 6
  • "Can We Talk?" Making the Most of Parent-Teacher Conferences
  • 75. Control Your Conference Schedule
  • 76. Involve Everyone Who Comes to a Conference
  • 77. Collect Your thoughts before Responding to Questions
  • 78. Have a Plan for Each Child
  • 79. Ask Open-Ended Questions to Get Parents to Talk about Issues
  • 80. Facilitate Communication by Relating Specific Observations
  • 81. Provide Examples of a Child's Work
  • 82. Ask Parents What their Child Does When Not in School
  • 83. Know What You Want to Say before Contacting a Parent to Schedule an Extra Conference
  • 84. Take More Than Enough Time before Expressing Concerns about a Child's Development
  • 85. When Necessary, Encourage Parents to Request Testing or See a Specialist
  • 86. Avoid Using Labels
  • 87. Prepare Yourself for Negative Reactions
  • 88. Have a Game Plan for Conferences
  • Try This
  • Afterword
  • Resources
  • Help Yourself: Creating Your own Plan for Improvement
  • Helpful Organizations
  • Suggested Reading.